Barnegat Lighthouse, New Jersey

Barnegat Lighthouse, New Jersey. Photo by Thisisbossi

 

The Garden State. It’s like Rodney Dangerfield. It gets no respect. Which is one of the rea­sons why Bruce Springsteen’s ren­di­tion of “Jersey Girl” always gets to me. Because he takes all of that dis­re­spect and throws it out the win­dow of a fast mov­ing car on the way to the shore. He sings that to his Jersey audi­ence. He gives them pride of place and evokes mem­o­ries his audi­ence can eas­ily relate to. He takes Tom Waits’ song and makes it his own and theirs. He makes it a Jersey song, which is some­thing Waits could never do, as great a song­writer as he is. Waits was born and bred in California. Not his fault. He couldn’t pos­si­bly know what it’s like to grow up in Jersey, in the shadow of the Big Apple.

I love the song. I love to hear the peo­ple in the audi­ence go crazy when Bruce sings that he’s going down to the shore and about his love for his Jersey Girl. I love that the kids in the audi­ence get the chance to feel good about their home state for a moment, to see their cham­pion proud of his roots and his mem­o­ries. Because it makes them proud, too. Their reac­tion to those words is so imme­di­ate, so joy­ful, so spon­ta­neous, I doubt they really con­nect it with a sense of pride, but that’s largely what it is. I also doubt they’re think­ing about the dif­fer­ence between Tom Waits singing about his future wife, Kathleen, and Springsteen singing about what is nat­ural and nor­mal for a kid from Jersey. For a Californian to fall for a Jersey girl is a leap of sorts. For Bruce and his Jersey fans, it’s as nat­ural as walk­ing down a boardwalk.

If they know his music, if they really know his music, they might even think he was singing about the same char­ac­ter who was in love with Sandy and Rosalita, and had such big plans. And this was one more step along the way for him, now that he found his Jersey girl. And they prob­a­bly thought about their own lives, their own times down at the shore, walk­ing on the board­walk, danc­ing in small clubs, lis­ten­ing to the scene …

 

Asbury Park

The board­walk at Asbury Park, New Jersey. Photo by Chris Abate.

 

Another thing that drew me to the song ini­tially was its rar­ity. It was nearly impos­si­ble to find a record­ing of it until he came out with his live album in 1986. You could some­times hear it on the more inde­pen­dent minded sta­tions, but it was tough to pur­chase the song. So I never got tired of it. Never heard it too often … It always had that abil­ity to sur­prise me and flood me yet again with mem­o­ries, the way peo­ple talk there, that extra gear of life-​​pace, that enthu­si­asm for life in the least depressed state in the nation.

Still, Jersey gets no respect. But Springsteen’s art should. And per­haps his audi­ence is feel­ing that sub­con­sciously as well. Respecting that art should get peo­ple to think again about homes and home towns and home states across the coun­try. Everyone has a story. Every state has a story. Every town. Art, music, lit­er­a­ture … can bring that home. Rather than look­ing past some­one, or look­ing right through them, art puts them front and cen­ter, gets in your face, makes you stop, step back, tune in. Makes you remem­ber when you went down to the shore, walked along the board­walk, kissed a girl under­neath that board­walk, while the waves beat against the posts and your par­ents looked for you. Or when you went swim­ming at the quarry with your friends, and some­one got badly hurt, but it all worked out in the end. Or, when you met a girl from Jersey and loved her at first sight and never for­got her.

All of that makes me con­nect with this song so much. But there is one thing more than any­thing else that does it for me. My own ties to the state go way back, but there was a gap in time. A time lapse. And I won­der how things would have been if I had never left. How dif­fer­ent I’d be today. And at the end of that time, when that gap closed, I met a uniquely beau­ti­ful girl of Italian and Puerto Rican ances­try, whose dark eyes, bright smile and sweet accent drew me back to Jersey in a thou­sand ways. Long, long ago. So when I hear Bruce sing about his love for a Jersey girl, I know what it’s like from expe­ri­ence. And I know that Jersey is much more than peo­ple think it is, and Bruce knows it too.

 

 

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